tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post1225692703094286794..comments2022-11-17T13:46:53.265-07:00Comments on The Journey; My Blog: Walking the LineTashahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07703686900839933503noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-59857058788115450012010-04-04T13:26:46.725-06:002010-04-04T13:26:46.725-06:00Ryan taught us all how life is very simple. What w...Ryan taught us all how life is very simple. What we give out, we get back. I am so fortunate to have known Ryan Westernman he demonstrated to many how precious life is and how we need to squeeze happiness and kindness out of every minute we have.<br />Today Ryan is flying high and finally has become the pilot he has always dreamed being. Looking down and watching over Tasha and Talyn.<br />Good Bless you Ryan.<br />Jojo MajorUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04071865580756838791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-13195881465399603962010-03-29T19:27:07.206-06:002010-03-29T19:27:07.206-06:00Of course you want him to stay with you forever bu...Of course you want him to stay with you forever but in your moments of strength and selflessness you want what is best for Ryan at this moment in his life. It is reassuring to know that he feels that he has somewhere to go and that even though he doesn't know where it is it is "really good". I'm sure that gives you some peace.<br /><br />Talyn's wish is a wonderful wish.Michelle Whttp://www.michellewellsphotography.canoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-30922890328191920592010-03-29T16:40:36.281-06:002010-03-29T16:40:36.281-06:00Hi Tasha please get the book "Final Gifts&quo...Hi Tasha please get the book "Final Gifts" (at Self Connection) so you can receive all of the "unsaid" gifts from Ryan for you Talyn and everyone else. You will be so glad you did-and it makes the next steps so much easier.<br />With love and experience of being exactly where you are.<br />StephanieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-86456994022491407972010-03-29T13:05:52.231-06:002010-03-29T13:05:52.231-06:00I've been trying to think of something to writ...I've been trying to think of something to write for a week now. But, there are no words.<br /><br />My heart breaks for you. I don't understand all of what you are going through as Elias never entered hospice - but I understand much of it too well and just know that I am here. Any time.<br /><br />~C~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-53326632612981538692010-03-26T14:16:44.819-06:002010-03-26T14:16:44.819-06:00The Prayer of Thomas Merton
My Lord God, I have ...The Prayer of Thomas Merton<br /> <br />My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going.<br />I do not see the road in front of me.<br />I cannot know for certain where it will end.<br />Nor do I really know myself…and the fact that I think that<br /> I am following Your will does not mean that I am<br /> actually doing so.<br />But I believe this:<br />I believe that the desire to please You does in fact please You.<br />I hope I have that desire in everything I do. <br />I hope I never persist in anything apart from that desire.<br />And I know that if I do this You will lead me by the right<br /> road, though I may know nothing about it at the time.<br />Therefore I will trust You always, for though I may seem to be lost – <br /> and in the shadow of death – I will not be afraid, because<br /> I know You will never leave me to face my troubles <br /> alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-33998802600800982332010-03-26T01:19:38.077-06:002010-03-26T01:19:38.077-06:00Dear Tasha,
Earlier today we read your latest blog...Dear Tasha,<br />Earlier today we read your latest blog entry aloud. Together we cried tears of sadness, regret, amazement, gratitude, love and release. <br /><br />As it happens, David and I were scheduled to meet another couple for supper tonight. After reading your latest posting, we decided to dedicate our evening of friendship and renewal to Ryan. <br /><br />Later, at our restaurant table, we shared Ryan's remarkable story and toasted his "stop, drop and smile" philosophy. Because of him, the four of us made the most of our evening and celebrated one marriage of 40 years and another of 45. None of us did anything to deserve the gift of so long a time together. Because of Ryan we will never again take for granted the time we are able to spend in loving support of one another. <br /><br />You are very gracious to let Ryan go, Tasha, and to teach Talyn to do the same. We know from your past postings that Ryan wants nothing more than to stay with the two of you. His wish will be granted in the strength you both find in living on with courage and joy. May the inexorable passage of time allow you to do just that.<br />Lots of love,<br />Louise and DavidLouise and Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00374257842923381357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-14666536527134766502010-03-25T23:38:58.415-06:002010-03-25T23:38:58.415-06:00Tasha, What an incredible blessing that Ryan and T...Tasha, What an incredible blessing that Ryan and Talyn have you in their lives. You are a strong and open individual. You have given and continue on a daily basis to give so many of us courage and strength in our own lives. The time is coming soon when all of this love and energy you have given 'out' will be there 10 fold to catch you when you no longer feel strong. It will be difficult beyond imagination, but don't be afraid to crumble into the many arms waiting to hold you. If there is ever ANYTHING I could do for you, I can only hope that you will ask.<br />Thinking of you and sending you a cyber hug.<br />Julie-Anne and family.Julie-Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16626615357317972003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-80352990924446559292010-03-25T21:31:16.987-06:002010-03-25T21:31:16.987-06:00Be strong and stay strong, you are stronger than y...Be strong and stay strong, you are stronger than you know. You amaze me with every update you do. You are so real and open with everyone. I admire you and only wish one day I can be 1/2 as strong as you are. Hold your head up high and enjoy every moment you have left with Ryan. Both of your blogs inspire me and everyday make me want to be a better person. Ryan will always be with you as you always have your son to look at everyday and know you are also looking at Ryan. Words will never express how much I pray for your family or how inspiring you both have been. Thank you for showing all of us what true strength and courage really is. Bless you and your family. Once again you are amazing. God bless you and your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-45802380171212662682010-03-25T21:24:27.871-06:002010-03-25T21:24:27.871-06:00Hi Tasha,
Please know that our thoughts are with y...Hi Tasha,<br />Please know that our thoughts are with you and your family. We are amazed at your strength and courage. I am so proud and sad for you at the same time. I'm sorry that you have to endure this difficult journey, there must be a greater reason for you to have to experience so much. We are thankful that you feel supported and will have the help when you are ready to ask for it.<br />Hugs.<br />Monica and DanUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06586516610431770716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-65395764182967025752010-03-25T20:17:54.999-06:002010-03-25T20:17:54.999-06:00I hope and pray that you and your family will have...I hope and pray that you and your family will have the strength to get through all theses things and to understand the reason behind all these things.<br /><br />Be strong even, our dear Lord will always be with you and your family.Thao B. Dennishttp://www.pulseconsultants.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-78886391301806552502010-03-25T14:19:20.249-06:002010-03-25T14:19:20.249-06:00Tash,
We are praying for you, Ryan, & Talyn co...Tash,<br />We are praying for you, Ryan, & Talyn constantly. Thank-you for being so real and vulnerable with your updates. I will always remember the big smile on Ryan's face when he was holding Blyss just a few hours after she was born; he could always light up the room.<br />God Bless,<br />Tammy, Sherwin, Elisa, Aphia & BlyssTammynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-3270121918835430442010-03-25T13:28:32.261-06:002010-03-25T13:28:32.261-06:00Hi Tasha, I like so many others, have been reading...Hi Tasha, I like so many others, have been reading yours and Ryan's blogs these past few months and have been unbelievably touched by your incredible words of inspiration and hope. You are such a beautiful family and my heart breaks for you all. Ryan will leave his mark on everyone, his amazing spirit and strength tells us all that we CAN bear the most ugliest of things. You have found strength you didn't know you had, you're a strong, wonderful woman and believe it or not, a day will come when you will be able to laugh again. Ryan is going through a process right now, preparing himself and you will come to realize that this is how it was meant to be. You are truly blessed to have such a loving, kind husband and such a dear little boy.....what a brave little soul Talyn is. Likewise, you are a pillar of strength for both of them. Continue to be strong Tasha, keep breathing and when you're with Ryan, hold him close. God bless you all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-37636370110045841052010-03-25T12:27:16.000-06:002010-03-25T12:27:16.000-06:00Wow, I cannot imagine your and Talyn's heartbr...Wow, I cannot imagine your and Talyn's heartbreak to see someone you love go through this. Your stories have absolutely inspired me to reassess what are my priorities, and to assess - does THIS really matter? What experiences do I want to take with me when I die? What is the legacy that I want to leave? Am I living my life consistent with these values and dreams? How do I become more present in my own life? How do I take it all in? Your and Ryan's blog posts have absolutely reminded me to simply appreciate those things that we all take for granted, most importantly, our family, friends and our health. <br /><br />I only had the pleasure of meeting Ryan 3 times - and each time, I got one of those incredible hugs that people have been writing about, and an ear-to-ear smile. He interacted with me as if I had always known him. I am thankful that facebook put me back in touch with you and that I had the blessing of meeting your incredible husband, and witnessing your incredible bond with each other. <br /><br />Ryan will always be with you and Talyn. We continue to pray for you and your family during this time.kristynhallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17368436518406210964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-65450902753134967732010-03-25T12:21:43.929-06:002010-03-25T12:21:43.929-06:00Tasha
This part of the journey is so hard but so p...Tasha<br />This part of the journey is so hard but so precious. We believe there is great strength and energy in just being present and holding a hand or wiping a brow.<br />You and your family remain in our thougths and prayers. <br />With love and respect<br />Jim & DonnaJim & Donna Simpsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09453236405762723477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064856796270397312.post-27547022211044775272010-03-25T11:12:22.246-06:002010-03-25T11:12:22.246-06:00reading your blog and Ryan's for the past few ...reading your blog and Ryan's for the past few months have really made a difference in how I see things around me. I've realized that I make a something so small such a negative thing....why? LIfe is too short and Ryan is showing that right now! From here on in I owe it to myself and my family to be a positive happy person and live life to the fullest, after all you only have today to live for. I can't imagine the pain you are going through right now Tasha and Talyn. Just keep knowing how many of us are reading this and thinking of you all the time. Stay strong Tasha, seems impossible right now I know but from what I have read from you and Ryan you are an amazing woman! <br /><br />Hugs for you and your family, thinking of you lots and I dont even know you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com